Some might knock the Law of Attraction, but I can’t help but catch some truth in the idea that we bring to us what we concentrate on the most. Nearly a year ago, I read a book that favored I create a list of any and all attributes I wanted in a partner. I wrote and I wrote and I wrote and I came up with 146 things. After we’d been seeing each other for awhile, I dug out the list and grabbed a pink highlighter to highlight the traits he had. At the end of my highlighting, I flipped through the pages of the notebook and realized they were covered in pink. Almost every single thing was highlighted. Odd as it might sound, I do believe in some weird way, that I attracted what I really, truly wanted.
I’m pretty sure that you’ve heard this love-related cliche before too, I’m sure, but honest to god, it’s true. If you expect to be treated badly and if you treat yourself badly, you will find someone who will treat you just the way you think you deserve to be treated. But, on the flip-side, if you believe that you should be treated with the utmost respect and decency and if you believe you deserve to be loved in a way that is pretty damn close to magical, believe me, that’s the love you’ll receive. Whether or not you want to buy into the whole Law of Attraction concept, I can tell you that I’ve realized that the love you await to get is the love you will earn. So, whether you’re searching for love or you’re already in a relationship, remember to aim high when it comes to the love you think you deserve.
One of the infinite greatest lessons love has taught me over the past few months is that there is nothing — and I do mean nothing — like having someone believe in you with his whole heart and soul. I’m a pretty big believer in myself and it’s always been amazing to have family and friends who believe in me, but, until recently, I had never before seen the kind of true, lasting belief in me that moved me from thinking I should believe in myself to knowing I should believe in myself. Nothing is more inspiring to be around someone who you have inspired, someone who loves you so much that they believe you could do — and succeed in — anything. That, my friends, is honest to goodness love, the kind of love most people only have the privilege of receiving from their mothers. That’s the kind of love that will lift you up and make you a better you.
So often in life we’re searching for the rush, for the next event or activities to fill us with excitement. But, I’ve realized that, when it comes to love, you can find yourself doing absolutely nothing and realize that you’re having the most amazing time. When you’re spending time with someone you love, you don’t need constant happiness. You don’t need to distract yourself or find ways to make something fun because, when you’re near someone you love fiercely, things just become fun. There is no forcing it. There is no battle to make up things to do. Whatever you do, there you are, having a great time. That, I’ve learned, is a sure sign of love.
Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind.
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